sluts & fuckboys
I’m climbing on my soapbox again.
The other night I had a hysterical conversation with a buddy about schmoes or simply put, jackasses. I know this sounds like such a broad topic and it really could be…but with social media, it’s like any respect for the opposite gender has all but disappeared. Individuals send half nudes to people who didn’t ask. When its not returned there is hostility. We name call each other and blast bullshit memes about why dating lives are so miserable.
Which this got me thinking as I scrolled through facebook on my phone….wow…. some of ya’ll are so angry, biter and fucking HOSTEL towards the opposite gender. Hoes, throts, fuckboy (or fuck boiz).
Sweet baby Judas Priest, how are you even remotely happy with anyone, ever?!!
Guys. When you post these asinine memes about…well, I’d say women, but that would be giving them too much class and insulting the rest of us….so…. when you post these memes about immature and fools girls; it tells the rest of us what kind of girl you usually date. It tells us the low quality we can expect from you. Because you are willing to publicly (on social media) degrade the opposite gender.
Before I get too far into a rant, 100% ABSOLUTELY it goes both ways. However, since I do not socialize with those kinds of girls, I do not see too many of the men….boy….bashing memes.
When you are constantly posting derogatory comments and memes about your ex or the opposite gender, you come across as an asshole (gals, you too). Why would anyone want anything to do with such a bitter and angry individual?
Recently, I sent something to a facebook buddy, well more a social acquaintance in strongman competitions. However, I thought he would appreciate it. He responded with a laugh, the kind you can tell is genuine and a “thank you beautiful.” It made me smile. A pure complement with no hidden intentions. His kind is sadly now a rarity, a gentleman. On New Year’s Eve, I saw a guy in my facebook feed had posted a boutique of a dozen roses of assorted colors, they are beautiful pinks, peach, red, white…. a caption reads for my New Years date tonight.
Guys. Women, real good hearted women LOVE this stuff. Random acts. It’s not the big things you do, it’s the random little things. I can not stress enough, you wonder why you cannot find a good woman…. Re-evaluate. Maybe you cannot find a good woman, because they are avoiding you.
Now. Bring on the hellfire….
On the other side of the coin, I saw a gal (well a couple to be exact) post how dick pics will not be tolerated because she is not that kind of gal… Ok, I thought. Be respectful guys. Then two posts down was some mirror pic of her ass in a thong and sticking out as far as she could manage without popping a rib. Ladies. What the fuck!?! SERIOUSLY?! How in the hell can you expect a guy to see you as anything but easy, a slut? When your social media presence is your bare or scantily clad ass. That is not sexy. It’s trashy. Get pissed at me if you want, but frankly. Posting those pictures, you are telling guys you are easy and nothing but a toy. You want respect, then respect your damn self first. When you respect yourself you demand respect from others. God I could go off on some enormous rant about this, instead I will just shake my head at you. No one but your fellow skanky posters are impressed with your booty gains and trust me, the guys are not thinking of you in any respectable way. You make it easy , they see you as disposable. You want to find a “good man” who will treat your right? Well, treat yourself with some dignity and respect first. I will flat out say it. NO guy wants to take home to meet his family, some chic that her social media could double as a wanna be Hustler model without the blessing of airbrushing. You are nothing more than free porn. An image without feelings. Now don’t get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with porn -at least not in my opinion. HOWEVER, save the skanky behavior for a man who respects you. Don’t belittle your value as a woman and as a human being.
When I was active duty (Army), I had a platoon sergeant who use to say, “Do you love your mother? Good, don’t do anything that would embarrass her.” Its good food for thought. Would your mother be embarrassed of what you post? Yes? Then don’t.
-Inked Amazon Warrior